Friday, January 14, 2011

Week 3 Preview – Whether or not to Stay in the Neighborhood

church move In week 1 I attended a church service in the same church building where I went to services as a child. This week I venture further out in my town to visit the congregation that left that building to build a bigger campus on the outskirts of our fair city.

Why do churches move out of their neighborhoods? What statement does it make? From the church’s perspective I suspect that it reveals their vision is larger than their neighborhood. Since America has very mobile citizens who have the means of traveling from one side of town to the other, churches can target a whole city with their vision and don’t have to be limited to the current size of their building or neighborhood. Prime real estate for a church is very little different than for a shopping center or strip mall; growth is all about location, location, location.

Of course bigger buildings, with people driving from miles around requires vast amounts of asphalt for parking lots- another reason our churches need bigger acreage. There wasn’t enough room in the old location for all the vehicles. But something to remember is that when the church was located on the neighborhood corner, people could actually walk there.

At least to me it seems that when a church moves into a neighborhood and makes the focus of their attention the people in their immediate vicinity, community has great potential. The neighbors might actually get the idea that the church is there for them. Unfortunately that message can get easily lost when the church moves out of the area. Though the church may try to communicate that they exist for the people (and may honestly believe that sentiment), when the church makes decisions that are centered on their own vision, people learn that they are expected to make themselves available for the church.

I have to be honest and admit that I’ve had more conversations about our church’s parking lot and whether or not we needed a Disneyland trains to get people into the sanctuary than I’ve ever had about our immediate neighbors. Hell, I don’t even know their names.

I don’t suppose the folks at church #3 who moved away will remember mine either.

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We have had this conversation a lot in the course I am taking online through Northwest Nazarene. I am in the Missional Leadership track of an MDiv. program. The message a congregation sends to its neighborhood, particularly in inner city neighborhoods that are overlooked or forgotten, when it uproots and leaves- ESPECIALLY to a more affluent, suburban neighborhood- is just one more message that neighborhood is very used to receiving from the world at large.
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Hey Cody, thanks for adding to this conversation with your experience. I appreciate it.

I'm not sure it is "wrong" to ask the people to come to the church, just like they do the supermarket, but it does communicate a more comsumeristic mindset, it my opinion. Even the outreaches my church does is for the purpose of getting people to come to us. I'm not sure that we do much care in the neighborhoods, with us going to them, with that as the focus.
For far too long, no matter how much I love(d) Jesus, I identified my faith by the label of the church I attended. My entire extracurricular life centered around the activities of the church and while none of the people I went to church with actually lived in my neighborhood, I knew more about them than my literal neighbors. It became a bold-faced problem to me when my job position was terminated at the church I had been working at one point, and we began the transition of finding another church. It was akin to divorce, except rather than a spouse, we were divorcing a whole group of people.

For those who enjoy worshiping with people in their neighborhoods, moving the location of the church, I can only imagine, is much the same as what we experienced in our "congregational divorce". The transition can be rough as many may choose to stay closer to home rather than travel to church. Even if they choose to travel and meet with many they've been worshiping with all those years, a new place, a new pew, a new foyer can all be shocking and unsettling. After all, we are creatures of habit; and habits are hard to break.
Amanda,

Thanks for sharing your experiences here. There is some very painful stuff when it comes to "congregational divorce." I'm so sorry you have walked through that. It doesn't seem to be consistent with how the Body of Christ is supposed to be connected.
Hey Cody, why do we keep running into each other? Happy to see you here too! Maybe one day we'll actually meet and truly TALK about ministry. Funny.

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